There is a
famous theory in psychology, Missing Tiles Philosophy!
Money like water was poured on the design,
construction, design, and furniture of that hotel. Thousands of people were
invited to the hotel's opening ceremony. But psychologists decided to use the
inaugural event as an experiment. At his request, a tile in the design of the
beautiful tiles on the front wall, which appeared as soon as he arrived at the
hotel reception was deliberately set aside.
Now a different joke started,
every visitor to the hotel was amazed at the beauty of the hotel, but as soon
as he arrived, his attention was repeatedly drawn to the missing tile. Hundreds
of people showed each other the missing tile, discussed it, did they want to
install the tile?
Why did she fall to the side?
This was followed by a heated debate. Hundreds of people also said that the
beauty of the hotel has been tarnished due to this negligence of the hotel
owner.
Not only that, but they also
wanted to give feedback to the guests about how they felt when they came to the
hotel, most of them wrote very briefly about the design of the hotel, the
interiors, the landscaping and the expensive handicrafts. And wrote extensively
about missing tiles.
The hotel had beautiful sculptures all over
the place, beautiful paintings that were worth seeing, many walls with
attractive colours, but two black spots were deliberately left on a large white
wall, according to psychologists.
In fact, the stains were so small that they were not even ten percent of the total size of the wall, but like the missing tiles, these stains began to attract people's attention.
People enthusiastically showed
each other the stains, made everything look so good, but wondered if the two
stains remained the same.
Some overzealous people just
started looking for faults in the construction, applauding each other and
celebrating the shortcomings of the hotel.
Finally, at the hotel's opening
ceremony, psychologists revealed their experiments, with the missing tiles
appearing in the lobby being deliberately removed.
Two stains were deliberately
drawn on the big white screen, and people wanted to know the response to both.
And the result was shocking, with hundreds, thousands of things to praise in
the hotel, but most people mentioned missing tiles and stains in the feedback
form.
Friends, is it a human being's instinct to look for shortcomings, to make mistakes as soon as he sees them, to name names after removing faults?
No, but as we get older, we get
into the habit of looking for shortcomings and shortcomings, then sometimes we
point fingers at the bad things in other people's lives, discuss them, sometimes
we spend our precious energy and precious time counting the problems in our own
lives.
I did not get proper education. I
was born in a poor house. I was born into a caste where I had no chance. My
parents were not educated. I have no noble property, no land. My dad didn’t
make any backups for me, didn’t give me capital.
I don't have intelligence. I
don't have a degree. Due to the conditions at home, I could not get a good
education.
I am not as beautiful as I look.
I did not get the partner I wanted, so my progress is not possible. Don't you
think that it is foolish to look for and discuss such and such missing tiles?
Anyone who wants to achieve
something in life seeks to look for hidden opportunities around them. He who
does not want to do anything in life, just finds excuses not to work.
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